What happens when you finally discover the real reason behind everything you do? In this episode, Gideon Shalwick returns to share his deeply personal journey of discovering his purpose. He talks about the courage it takes to ask yourself why, the surprising connection between Maxwell's Equations and living with purpose, and how following your true path turns you into a magnet for the right opportunities.
What You'll Learn in This Episode
- How Gideon Shalwick uncovered his deeper purpose by asking himself “why” repeatedly
- A four-step framework for discovering and acting on your own purpose
- The Maxwell's Equations analogy and how purpose creates a magnetic effect in business
- Why verbalizing your purpose to others accelerates your progress
Episode Summary
Gideon Shalwick of Splasheo.com is back for part two of his conversation with Mark. Last week he shared strategies for increasing video engagement. This week he goes deeper, sharing his personal struggle with understanding his purpose.
Gideon did not always know his why. When he started his entrepreneurial journey, he had no clear sense of purpose. But after realizing this gap, he started asking himself the hard question: why? Why had he made certain decisions? Why did he take the path he took? Why did he gravitate toward certain things?
By asking these questions honestly, Gideon uncovered a deeper understanding of his purpose. He also discovered something uncomfortable: his why was not necessarily what he wanted it to be. That realization led to a significant shift in how he approached his work and life.
Mark and Gideon discuss how many people already know their why on a subconscious or emotional level but have not thought it through completely. Often, fear holds them back: fear of what people might say, fear of failure, or fear of rejection.
Gideon offers a four-step framework for discovering your purpose:
1. Ask yourself why. Why do you do what you do? Why did you take that job? Why do you want to build that business? These questions lead you to a deeper understanding of what you truly want.
2. Question your answers. Are those the only reasons? Are you happy with your answers? Would you like them to be different? If yes, shift your focus. You control everything that happens after that shift.
3. Verbalize your purpose. Many people hold back because they feel uncertain, but when you feel it deeply, you need to start saying it out loud. Tell yourself and tell others. When people respond with excitement, you feel the energy of your dreams coming to life.
4. Follow your true path and stay the course. Do not get distracted by small achievements. Focus on the bigger picture. When you have to make a decision, ask which option aligns with your why.
Mark and Gideon close with a fascinating analogy based on Maxwell's Equations from physics. When electricity flows through a copper wire, it creates a magnetic field that both attracts and repels. The same thing happens when you follow your true path. You become a magnet for the right people, opportunities, and resources, while naturally repelling what does not align with your purpose. This allows you to live a more fulfilled and meaningful life that motivates everyone around you.
Key Takeaways
- Repeatedly asking “why” uncovers your deeper purpose even when the answers are uncomfortable
- Your true purpose may not be what you expect, and discovering that requires courage
- Fear of judgment, failure, or rejection often keeps people from pursuing their real path
- Verbalizing your purpose to others creates momentum and accountability
- Living with purpose makes you a magnet for aligned opportunities and people
- Stay focused on the bigger picture rather than getting distracted by small wins
What's Changed Since This Episode
Mark recorded this episode in October 2019, and the conversation around purpose-driven business has grown significantly. Simon Sinek's “Start With Why” framework has continued to influence entrepreneurs, and the concept has expanded into broader discussions about values-aligned business building. Research consistently shows that purpose-driven companies outperform their competitors in both employee satisfaction and financial performance.
Splasheo, Gideon's video captioning service, has operated in an increasingly competitive space as video captioning has become standard practice. Auto-captioning features are now built into most social media platforms, though professional captioning services still offer superior quality and customization.
The Great Resignation of 2021-2022 saw millions of people leave their jobs to pursue more purposeful work, validating exactly what Gideon describes in this episode. The movement demonstrated that when people finally ask themselves “why” and answer honestly, they are willing to make dramatic changes to align their work with their purpose.
Resources Mentioned
- Splasheo — Gideon Shalwick's video captioning service
- Brene Brown: The Power of Vulnerability — TED Talk
- Apple Podcasts — subscribe to LNIM
- Spotify — subscribe to LNIM
- LNIM Podcast
Related Episodes
If you found this episode helpful, you might also enjoy:
- LNIM183 — Immediately Increase Video Engagement with Gideon Shalwick
- LNIM188 — Dealing with Impostor Syndrome
- LNIM182 — Internet Business Mindset Takeaways From Free The Dream
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